A consequence of my last relapse is a probation violation – I failed a urine test from my last PO meeting. As a result, the judge wants to have a chat with me. Of course, when judges want to chat, they don’t just use GoogleCalendar or LotusNotes to setup a meeting. They do this “issue a warrant for your arrest” thing. Go figure 😉
Tomorrow, I head to Greenfield and turn myself in for the warrant related to my violation. (I’m SO disappointed they didn’t post my picture on the web this time!) My lawyer will file a motion right away for a hearing to set bail. Given the time of day, and not knowing how busy the judge’s schedule will be, I’m anticipating that I will likely spend at least one night in jail (best case) — and realistically, it could be two or three nights before we get the hearing and I can then post bail. I’m trying to keep my expectations realistic to be best prepared. That’s one thing they’ve told me in recovery – watch your expectations!
All in all, I fully accept that I’m here — and my resolve to put my learnings to work is stronger than ever.
What have I learned?
- Don’t pick up – no matter what
- Complete honesty with myself and others about feelings & actions – ask for help (can’t be therapist AND patient!)
- Daily acceptance and surrender of all my addictive tendencies
- Easy does it
- Stay focused on today (not next clean time milestones, etc.). I don’t have to use…just for today
OH, and in case I missed it, don’t pick up. No matter what.